I know exactly when my ME/CFS and FM started. I had finished a very stressful part of my life where I was taking care of my disabled husband, finishing graduate school, and homeschooling my teens. I worked full time for about a year and then came down with a bronchitis/pneumonia type infection. It took me three rounds of three different antibiotics to get rid of the cough and when it was done, my energy never returned. I eventually was diagnosed with the ME/CFS and FM along with hypothyroid, a candida gut infection, EBV, HHV-6, and m. pneumoniae (all recent infections), sleep apnea and hypopnea. A neuropsych exam showed that while my IQ was intact, my processing speed had dropped to borderline (60%-ile reduction) - hence my fibro fog.
It could be that I was run down and the first big infection I got was enough to cause the conditions, but intuitively I feel that it was the stress of my husband's illness and slow improvement, accumulated over the decade previous to my becoming ill, that contributed the most.
I know that I spent about three years of not moving off the recliner before I even felt that I could try to increase my activity. Another three years thereafter of light movement, chair yoga, and walking, pacing carefully to prevent relapses got me to somewhat functional (from a 2 or 3 to a 5 or so). I've learned to stop being an overachiever and to reduce stress as soon as I see it coming. I've been able to use nutrition to get rid of most of my cognitive issues and FM pain at this point, but still deal with the fatigue and will relapse a bad day or days of inability to move much at all if I don't continue to pace carefully.
Does the fact that nutritional supplement has helped more than almost anything else mean I was malnourished prior to becoming ill? Or possibly, did the candida infection keep me from being able to take in nutrients even though I was eating well? I'm not sure. Possibly the combination of stress reduction, light movement, and fixing the other issues allowed my body to be ready to assimilate the nutrition when it was provided. Just as it seems like a "perfect storm" of stress, infection, and overactivity may have been the cause; setting up the right conditions of destressing, allowing my body rest, and nutrition geared toward nerve and brain health at the right time may have helped me make progress in both cognition and FM pain. Now, if I could find something to help with fatigue, I'd be all set.
It could be that I was run down and the first big infection I got was enough to cause the conditions, but intuitively I feel that it was the stress of my husband's illness and slow improvement, accumulated over the decade previous to my becoming ill, that contributed the most.
I know that I spent about three years of not moving off the recliner before I even felt that I could try to increase my activity. Another three years thereafter of light movement, chair yoga, and walking, pacing carefully to prevent relapses got me to somewhat functional (from a 2 or 3 to a 5 or so). I've learned to stop being an overachiever and to reduce stress as soon as I see it coming. I've been able to use nutrition to get rid of most of my cognitive issues and FM pain at this point, but still deal with the fatigue and will relapse a bad day or days of inability to move much at all if I don't continue to pace carefully.
Does the fact that nutritional supplement has helped more than almost anything else mean I was malnourished prior to becoming ill? Or possibly, did the candida infection keep me from being able to take in nutrients even though I was eating well? I'm not sure. Possibly the combination of stress reduction, light movement, and fixing the other issues allowed my body to be ready to assimilate the nutrition when it was provided. Just as it seems like a "perfect storm" of stress, infection, and overactivity may have been the cause; setting up the right conditions of destressing, allowing my body rest, and nutrition geared toward nerve and brain health at the right time may have helped me make progress in both cognition and FM pain. Now, if I could find something to help with fatigue, I'd be all set.
I was pretty healthy most of my life but I was not prepared for how much my life would deteriorate after having bladder surgery! This was & still is a major factor as I am still suffering & the damage even with a second surgery was irreversible! The only factors were my husband suffered some time of mental breakdown & quit working I had a demanding job which I loved but was working too many hours & recent death's of 2 very beloved family members. The last was I tripped & smashed my head into the door leading to our garage. Plus I had no idea what fibromyalgia was nor did anyone in my area! I truly believe that if I had not been led astray by snake oil salesman & had some type of info or actual knowledge I might have saved some of the trauma & the ridiculous expense. Plus my family treated me horribly. That was extremely painful & since I always believed in taking care of family I couldn't understand the cruelty. The isolation was terrible I've always been a social person & most of all the fact that "you don't look sick", you want to take those drugs! I can laugh at some of the insanity but it's still the same as to what people choose to believe & what is the actual truth. I'm focusing on me at this point & staying possible which is very helpful but some times people what to knock you down & that is the harder than physical pain